Earnest money is the deposit you put down with your offer to show the seller you're serious. In Hampton Roads, earnest money typically runs 1–2% of the purchase price. This guide explains how earnest money works, how much to offer, who holds it, when you get it back, and the situations where you can lose it.
Key takeaways at a glance
- Typical earnest money in Hampton Roads is 1–2% of purchase price — $3,000–$8,000 on a typical $300–400k home.
- The title company or escrow agent holds the funds — never the seller or the seller's agent.
- You get earnest money back if you cancel for a contract-protected reason (failed inspection, financing falls through, appraisal low) within the contingency window.
- You can lose earnest money if you walk away outside contingencies, miss deadlines, or breach the contract.
- Earnest money is applied to your closing costs at the table — you're not "losing" it, you're pre-paying it.
| Reason for cancellation | EMD returned? |
|---|---|
| Failed home inspection (within window) | Yes |
| Financing falls through (within window) | Yes |
| Low appraisal (within window) | Yes |
| Title issues that can't be cleared | Yes |
| HOA review — Virginia POA Act 3-day rescission | Yes |
| Buyer cold feet outside contingencies | No — typically forfeited |
| Seller backs out | Yes — plus possible additional remedies |
| Buyer fails to perform on time | Often forfeited; depends on contract |
In this guide
What is earnest money?
A good-faith deposit submitted with your offer to show the seller you're serious about buying. The funds are held by a neutral third party (the title company, escrow agent, or brokerage trust account) until closing, then applied to your closing costs.
How much earnest money should you offer?
In Hampton Roads, typical earnest money is 1–2% of the purchase price. On a $325,000 home, that's $3,250–$6,500. Larger earnest money signals stronger commitment in competitive offer situations; smaller earnest money preserves more cash for closing.
In hot pockets (Red Mill / Strawbridge in VB, Greenbrier in Chesapeake, Williamsburg historic district), 2–3% earnest money can help win a competitive offer.
Who holds the earnest money?
A neutral third party — almost always the title company, escrow agent, or listing brokerage's trust account. Never the seller or the seller's personal account. Always confirm where the funds will be held BEFORE wiring them.
When do you get earnest money back?
You get earnest money back if you cancel within a contract-protected contingency window. The standard Virginia residential contract typically protects:
- Inspection contingency — typically 7–14 days; you can cancel for any inspection issue
- Financing contingency — your loan falls through
- Appraisal contingency — home appraises below contract price and you can't/won't cover the gap
- HOA review (Virginia POA Act) — 3-day right to void after receiving the resale package
- Title issues — defects in title that can't be cleared
When can you lose earnest money?
You can lose earnest money if you:
- Walk away outside any contract contingency (cold feet)
- Miss the deadline to invoke a contingency (e.g., don't cancel within the inspection window)
- Fail to perform under the contract (don't close on time, don't deliver required docs)
- Try to change material terms after going firm
Earnest money is generally NOT a "free option" to walk away. Read the contract.
How to wire earnest money safely
Wire fraud is the #1 financial scam against first-time buyers. Always call the title company at a phone number you looked up yourself — not one in any email — to verify wire instructions before sending. Once funds wire to a fraudulent account, recovery is nearly impossible.
Frequently Asked Questions
How much earnest money should I put down?
Typically 1–2% of purchase price in Hampton Roads. Higher earnest money can help win competitive offers; lower preserves cash for closing.
Who holds the earnest money?
A neutral third party — title company, escrow agent, or listing brokerage trust account. Never the seller directly.
When do I get earnest money back?
When the deal closes (applied to closing costs) OR when you cancel for a contract-protected reason (failed inspection, failed financing, low appraisal, HOA review).
Can I lose earnest money?
Yes — if you walk away outside any contract contingency, miss a deadline, or breach the contract. Read the contract carefully.
Is earnest money the same as a down payment?
No. Earnest money is the upfront deposit (1–2%); down payment is what you bring at closing (3–20%+ typically). Earnest money is applied to your closing costs / down payment at the table.
How do I pay earnest money?
Wire transfer (most common) or cashier's check. Always verify wire instructions by phone before sending.
What happens if the seller backs out?
You get your earnest money back, plus may have additional remedies (specific performance, damages) depending on the contract and the reason.
Is there a standard amount of earnest money in Virginia?
No legal standard. Market practice in Hampton Roads is 1–2% of purchase price; specific amount is negotiated with the offer.
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Sources & further reading
- CFPB — What is earnest money?
- ALTA — Wire fraud prevention
- Virginia Real Estate Board
- Virginia Property Owners' Association Act
Information reflects 2025-2026 conditions and rules. Always confirm current details with the relevant agency, lender, or licensed professional before relying on any specific figure or rule.
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